Winning the heart of your Wife

Page:01 Winning the Heart of your Wife Ibraahim ibn Saaleh al-Mahmud
Page:02 About the Book Today, if we look at people's lives we will be disappointed and feel distressed because sins, forbidden actions and misdeeds have become widespread. Concepts that were once common among some people have changed, the evil has become the good and the good has become the evil. Traditions and ethics have also changed. Accordingly, people become influenced and fascinated by the ideas of Western "civilization" and affected by dirty and indecent movies which look at betrayal as love, disintegration as freedom and openness, respect for the husband as backwardness and complexity and the understanding between the husband and wife as weakness. As a result, misfortunes have increased, disasters diffused and Muslims have become tense and confused. الفردوس ISBN 978-1874-26-321-3 AL-FIRDOUS AL-FIRDOUS LTD. www.al-firdous.co.uk 9 781874 263210 £3.50 $6.00
Page:03 Table of Contents HOW TO WIN YOUR WIFE'S HEART. TABLE OF CONTENTS............. HOW TO WIN YOUR WIFE'S HEART. INTRODUCTION...... "HOW TO WIN YOUR WIFE'S HEART" TREATING WOMAN WITH KINDNESS. THE WIFE'S RIGHTS... RIGHTS COMMON TO HUSBAND AND WIFE TREATING THE WIFE WITH KINDNESS... THE CAUSES OF MARRIAGE PROBLEMS. THE EPIDEMIC OF SINS....... AN IMPORTANT FATWA.. THE EXUBERANT HUSBAND... IMPORTANT QUESTIONS...... A HUSBAND THREATENS WITH DIVORCE!!!. 1 3 .................. 5 5 7 11 15 21 23 25 27 31 35 37 45 49 49 51 ................ 53 A WIFE PLEADING WITH HER HUSBAND NOT TO TRAVEL!. CONCLUSION....... A MESSAGE FROM THE PUBLISHERS. STORIES FROM THE PREDECESSORS.. .............. HOW THE COMPANIONS FEARED ALLAH.................. 69 EXHORTATION OF THE PREDECESSORS TO TAQWA ............. 79 THE QUALITIES OF THOSE WITH TAQWA................. 83 ALI'S DESCRIPTION OF THOSE WITH TAQWA............ 85 3
Page:04 How to win your wife's heart by: Ibraahim Ibn Saaleh al-Mahmud Introduction All praise is due to Allah who says: وَمِنْ وَايَتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةٌ إِنَّ فِي ذَلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ ) "And among His signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy" [Surah Ar-Rum:verse 21], and Peace and Blessing be upon our prophet Muhammad who said: "The best of you is one who is best with one's household (in treatment) and I am best of you to my household", reported by At-Tirmidih and others. To proceed: Today, if we look at people's lives we will be disappointed 5