Preparing for Life – Islamic Guidance for Building a Meaningful and Purposeful Life

Preparing for Life is an inspiring and reflective book that helps readers understand the true purpose of life through the teachings of Islam. In a world filled with distractions and constant change, this book encourages Muslims to pause and think about their goals, priorities, and relationship with Allah.

The book emphasizes that life in this world is a temporary journey and that true success comes from preparing for the Hereafter. Through meaningful discussions and practical advice, it guides readers on how to build a life that balances worldly responsibilities with spiritual growth.

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Enthusing good reading habits in the family
There are certain praiseworthy practices that indicate that a nation is successful, and one practice which stands out is the widespread habit of reading amongst its citizens. Reading guarantees these people's future with a better education which uplifts their position and dignity in the world. In a nation like this, the houses of most people would have a private library, no matter how small. Even in crowded public transport, one sees people engaged in reading; they cannot afford to remain unproductive by staying idle in their journey.
Having a reading habit is one of the best indicators of an enlightened nation. Lasting civilisations are mainly built through intellectual supremacy and not just through physical power. The Muslim civilisation was a shining example of a nation based on knowledge, ever since the early Muslims created a vibrant community based on the message
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Contents
Introduction
1. Raising one's 'little angels' as God's stewards on earth
2. The need to invest in one's children
3. Love and care at the heart of raising children
4. Enthusing good reading habits in the family
5. Motivating one's children
6. Bridging generational and cultural gaps
7. Consistency in using discipline techniques
8. Helping one's children to find true friends
9. Tackling teenage issues sensitively
10. Instilling family values in one's children
11. Core duties and basic rights in the family
12. Building an understanding of give-and-take
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Raising one's 'little angels' as God's stewards on earth
A newborn baby is a bundle of joy and a treasure in any family;
a little angel sought after by parents, especially mothers. This 'love' comes following pain, after a nine-month long pregnancy which can only be experienced by women. That is why the mother's position is higher than that of the father's in all religious and cultural traditions. 'Paradise lies at the feet of the mothers," said Islam's Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). Women have to be particularly careful about their own health, food habits and lifestyle during pregnancy.
Pregnancy is a 'sacrifice' that some women avoid making in today's consumerist culture because of their busy lives and individualistic frames of mind. But this unique experience to feel and see a living being growing inside their bodies must be thrilling. A woman's life changes
1 Sunan al-Nasa 7. 3104
Raising one's little angels' as God's stewards on earth
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We live in a time of complexity and uncertainty within
modern life. Whilst the overuse of technology and social
media has reduced human interaction in families and neighbourhoods, we have also seen an upsurge of empathy
and compassion for fellow human beings during times of difficulty and crises.
Positive parenting is about raising a child as a better human being and a better citizen. Our parental obligation is to help children grow into mature and confident adults with a positive character and good social and life skills.
Preparing for Life is a reminder to, particularly, Muslim parents about their unique and entrusted role in preparing their children for life with universal human and Islamic values.
Dr Muhammad Abdul Bari is an educationalist, community activist, author, parenting consultant and commentator on social and political issues. He has written for various newspapers, blogs and journals including The Huffington Post and Al Jazeera English, and is the author of a number of books on marriage, family, parenting, identity and community issues from contemporary British Muslim perspectives.

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Page:01
Enthusing good reading habits in the family
There are certain praiseworthy practices that indicate that a nation is successful, and one practice which stands out is the widespread habit of reading amongst its citizens. Reading guarantees these people's future with a better education which uplifts their position and dignity in the world. In a nation like this, the houses of most people would have a private library, no matter how small. Even in crowded public transport, one sees people engaged in reading; they cannot afford to remain unproductive by staying idle in their journey.
Having a reading habit is one of the best indicators of an enlightened nation. Lasting civilisations are mainly built through intellectual supremacy and not just through physical power. The Muslim civilisation was a shining example of a nation based on knowledge, ever since the early Muslims created a vibrant community based on the message
Page:02
Contents
Introduction
1. Raising one's 'little angels' as God's stewards on earth
2. The need to invest in one's children
3. Love and care at the heart of raising children
4. Enthusing good reading habits in the family
5. Motivating one's children
6. Bridging generational and cultural gaps
7. Consistency in using discipline techniques
8. Helping one's children to find true friends
9. Tackling teenage issues sensitively
10. Instilling family values in one's children
11. Core duties and basic rights in the family
12. Building an understanding of give-and-take
Page:03
Raising one's 'little angels' as God's stewards on earth
A newborn baby is a bundle of joy and a treasure in any family;
a little angel sought after by parents, especially mothers. This 'love' comes following pain, after a nine-month long pregnancy which can only be experienced by women. That is why the mother's position is higher than that of the father's in all religious and cultural traditions. 'Paradise lies at the feet of the mothers," said Islam's Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). Women have to be particularly careful about their own health, food habits and lifestyle during pregnancy.
Pregnancy is a 'sacrifice' that some women avoid making in today's consumerist culture because of their busy lives and individualistic frames of mind. But this unique experience to feel and see a living being growing inside their bodies must be thrilling. A woman's life changes
1 Sunan al-Nasa 7. 3104
Raising one's little angels' as God's stewards on earth
Page:04
We live in a time of complexity and uncertainty within
modern life. Whilst the overuse of technology and social
media has reduced human interaction in families and neighbourhoods, we have also seen an upsurge of empathy
and compassion for fellow human beings during times of difficulty and crises.
Positive parenting is about raising a child as a better human being and a better citizen. Our parental obligation is to help children grow into mature and confident adults with a positive character and good social and life skills.
Preparing for Life is a reminder to, particularly, Muslim parents about their unique and entrusted role in preparing their children for life with universal human and Islamic values.
Dr Muhammad Abdul Bari is an educationalist, community activist, author, parenting consultant and commentator on social and political issues. He has written for various newspapers, blogs and journals including The Huffington Post and Al Jazeera English, and is the author of a number of books on marriage, family, parenting, identity and community issues from contemporary British Muslim perspectives.