My Sincere Advice to Women – Islamic Guidance for Muslim Women | Umm Abdillah Al-Waadiyyah

“My Sincere Advice to Women” by Umm Abdillah Al-Waadiyyah is an inspiring Islamic book that offers valuable guidance and reminders for Muslim women based on the Quran and Sunnah. The book discusses important aspects of a Muslim woman’s life, including faith, worship, modesty, character, family responsibilities, and spiritual growth.

Through sincere advice and practical lessons, the author encourages women to strengthen their connection with Allah, improve their daily conduct, and follow the example of righteous Muslim women. The book also highlights the importance of patience, sincerity, good manners, and maintaining Islamic values in all areas of life.

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My Sincere Advice to
Women
By The Noble Shaykhah
Umm 'Abdillah al-Waadi'iyyah
Foreword by the Allaamah & Mujaddid of Yemen
Muqbil bin Haadee al-Waadi'ee
Dar Makkah International
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My Sincere Advice to Women: Umm 'Abdillah al-Wadiyyah
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CHAPTER ONE
Exhortation towards Sincerity and Guarding One's Time
Imam al-Bukhari (may Allah have mercy on him) recorded in his Sahiḥ (1/135) on the authority of 'Umar, that Allah's Messenger (*) said:
الأَعْمَالُ بِالنِّيَّةِ، وَلِكُلِّ امْرِئٍ مَا نَوَى، فَمَنْ كَانَتْ هِجْرَتُهُ إِلَى اللَّهِ وَرَسُولِهِ فَهِجْرَتُهُ إِلَى اللهِ وَرَسُولِهِ، وَمَنْ كَانَتْ هِجْرَتُهُ لِدُنْيَا يُصِيبُهَا أَوِ امْرَأَةٍ يَتَزَوَّجُهَا فَهِجْرَتُهُ إِلَى مَا هَاجَرَ إِلَيْهِ.
"Actions are considered by intention, and every individual will be rewarded according to his intention. So, whoever emigrated for Allah and His Messenger, his emigration is for Allah and His Messenger, and whoever emigrated for worldly benefits or to marry a woman, then his emigration is for what he emigrated."
Therefore, I advise myself and you to fear Allah the Mighty and Majestic, in secret and open, and that we sincerely make our deeds solely for the Sublime Face of Allah, and not to show-off or boast. And that we should adhere to our religion because we shall be questioned before Allah the Mighty and Majestic (on the Day of Resurrection).
It is recorded in the Sahiḥ of al-Bukhari and Muslim from the Hadith of 'Adi bin Hatim that Allah's Messenger (*) said,
مَا مِنْكُمْ أَحَدٌ إِلا سَيُكَلِّمُهُ رَبُّهُ لَيْسَ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَهُ تُرْجُمَانٌ، فَيَنْظُرُ أَيْمَنَ مِنْهُ فَلَا يَرَى إِلا مَا قَدَّمَ مِنْ عَمَلِهِ، وَيَنْظُرُ أَسْأَمَ مِنْهُ فَلَا يَرَى إِلَّا مَا قَدَّمَ، وَيَنْظُرُ بَيْنَ يَدَيْهِ فَلَا يَرَى إِلَّا النَّارَ تِلْقَاءَ وَجْهِهِ، فَاتَّقُوا النَّارَ وَلَوْ بِشِقٌ تَمْرَةٍ.
"There is no one amongst you that His Lord will not speak to (on the Day of Resurrection) without there being an interpreter between him and Allah. Then he will look

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"Seek, do not lose hope from seeking; the bane of a seeker is to lose hope. Can't you see the rope, with its repetitions, on the strong rock it makes a mark."
CHAPTER TWO
Guarding the Tongue and Its Merit
Allah the Most High said:
أَلَمْ تَرَوْا أَنَّ اللَّهَ سَخَّرَ لَكُم مَّا فِي السَّمَوَاتِ وَمَا فِي الْأَرْضِ وَأَسْبَغَ عَلَيْكُمْ نِعَمَهُ ظَهِرَةً وَبَاطِنَةٌ وَمِنَ النَّاسِ مَن يُجَدِلُ فِي اللَّهِ بِغَيْرِ عِلْمٍ وَلَا هُدًى
وَلَا كِتَبٍ مُّنِيرٍ لقمان: ۲۰
"And has completed and perfected His Graces upon you, (both) apparent (i.e. Islamic Monotheism, and the lawful pleasures of this world, including health, good looks, etc.) and hidden [i.e. One's Faith in Allah (of Islamic Monotheism) knowledge, wisdom, guidance for doing righteous deeds, and also the pleasures and delights of the Hereafter in Paradise, etc.]?" [Qur'an 31: 20]

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My Sincere Advice to Women: Umm 'Abdillah al-Wadi'yyah
My Sincere Advice to Women: Umm 'Abdillah al-Wadiyyah
CONTENTS
Chapter Seventeen:
A Woman Should Not Describe another Woman to Her Husband
245
Preface:
8
Foreword by Shaykh Muqbil Bin Hādī al-Wadi'T: ......... 9 Author's Introduction: .........
Chapter Eighteen:
Forbiddance of Changing Allah's Creation
246
...13
Chapter One:
Chapter Two: Chapter Three: Diseases of the Tongue. Chapter Four:
Children Upbringing.....
Exhortation Towards Sincerity And Guarding Ones Time ............ 15 Guarding the Tongue and Its Merit... 33
Chapter Nineteen:
Making Attachments to Hair is among the Major Sins
248
Chapter Twenty:
Prohibition of Men Copying Women and Vice-Versa
254
42
105
Chapter Twenty-One: Clapping is for Women Chapter Twenty-Two: There is No Obligation of Jihad Upon Women
257
259
Chapter Five:
A Woman May Go Out To Fulfill Her Needs........
Chapter Six:
Chapter Seven:
Chapter Eight:
Chapter Nine:
.....178
Chapter Ten:
Women Have Short Coming In Religion and Reasoning.
.193
Chapter Eleven: Part of Women's Plot...... Chapter Twelve: Majority of the People of Hell Are
.195
Women Chapter Thirteen: The Husband's Rights upon His Wife and the Wife's Rights upon Her Husband. 201
197
.......... 137
Hijab and Lowering the Gaze......... 155 Etiquette of a Woman Going Out ......172 A Woman Attending Battle And
Defending Herself If Need Be........ 174 Beware Of Women
Chapter Twenty-Three: Al-Haya [Bashfulness] and Its Excellence 261
327
Chapter Twenty-Six: Spreading the Greeting of Salam...... 314 Chapter Twenty-Seven: Multiple Number of Women in the End of This Ummah Chapter Twenty-Eight: Excellence of Khadijah Bint Khuwaylid [The First Wife of the Prophet] ..... 328 Chapter Twenty-Nine: Quest for Marrying Pious Woman, and the Opposite.....
Chapter Twenty-Four: Evil Traits
277
Chapter Twenty-Five: Joining Ties with Non-Muslim Relations 309
333
Chapter Fourteen: Women's Jealousy.
.231
Chapter Fifteen:
A Woman Should Not Ask for Her Sister's Divorce
Chapter Thirty: Chapter Thirty-One:
Learning Beneficial Knowledge...343 Adherence to the Qur'an and Sunnah 362
242
Questions and Answers
379
Chapter Sixteen:
A Woman Should Not Show Satisfaction with what She Is Not Given 244

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My Sincere Advice to
Women
By The Noble Shaykhah
Umm 'Abdillah al-Waadi'iyyah
Foreword by the Allaamah & Mujaddid of Yemen
Muqbil bin Haadee al-Waadi'ee
Dar Makkah International
Publishing & Distribution

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My Sincere Advice to Women: Umm 'Abdillah al-Wadiyyah
- 15-
CHAPTER ONE
Exhortation towards Sincerity and Guarding One's Time
Imam al-Bukhari (may Allah have mercy on him) recorded in his Sahiḥ (1/135) on the authority of 'Umar, that Allah's Messenger (*) said:
الأَعْمَالُ بِالنِّيَّةِ، وَلِكُلِّ امْرِئٍ مَا نَوَى، فَمَنْ كَانَتْ هِجْرَتُهُ إِلَى اللَّهِ وَرَسُولِهِ فَهِجْرَتُهُ إِلَى اللهِ وَرَسُولِهِ، وَمَنْ كَانَتْ هِجْرَتُهُ لِدُنْيَا يُصِيبُهَا أَوِ امْرَأَةٍ يَتَزَوَّجُهَا فَهِجْرَتُهُ إِلَى مَا هَاجَرَ إِلَيْهِ.
"Actions are considered by intention, and every individual will be rewarded according to his intention. So, whoever emigrated for Allah and His Messenger, his emigration is for Allah and His Messenger, and whoever emigrated for worldly benefits or to marry a woman, then his emigration is for what he emigrated."
Therefore, I advise myself and you to fear Allah the Mighty and Majestic, in secret and open, and that we sincerely make our deeds solely for the Sublime Face of Allah, and not to show-off or boast. And that we should adhere to our religion because we shall be questioned before Allah the Mighty and Majestic (on the Day of Resurrection).
It is recorded in the Sahiḥ of al-Bukhari and Muslim from the Hadith of 'Adi bin Hatim that Allah's Messenger (*) said,
مَا مِنْكُمْ أَحَدٌ إِلا سَيُكَلِّمُهُ رَبُّهُ لَيْسَ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَهُ تُرْجُمَانٌ، فَيَنْظُرُ أَيْمَنَ مِنْهُ فَلَا يَرَى إِلا مَا قَدَّمَ مِنْ عَمَلِهِ، وَيَنْظُرُ أَسْأَمَ مِنْهُ فَلَا يَرَى إِلَّا مَا قَدَّمَ، وَيَنْظُرُ بَيْنَ يَدَيْهِ فَلَا يَرَى إِلَّا النَّارَ تِلْقَاءَ وَجْهِهِ، فَاتَّقُوا النَّارَ وَلَوْ بِشِقٌ تَمْرَةٍ.
"There is no one amongst you that His Lord will not speak to (on the Day of Resurrection) without there being an interpreter between him and Allah. Then he will look

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My Sincere Advice to Women: Umm Abdillah al-Wadiyyah
33
"Seek, do not lose hope from seeking; the bane of a seeker is to lose hope. Can't you see the rope, with its repetitions, on the strong rock it makes a mark."
CHAPTER TWO
Guarding the Tongue and Its Merit
Allah the Most High said:
أَلَمْ تَرَوْا أَنَّ اللَّهَ سَخَّرَ لَكُم مَّا فِي السَّمَوَاتِ وَمَا فِي الْأَرْضِ وَأَسْبَغَ عَلَيْكُمْ نِعَمَهُ ظَهِرَةً وَبَاطِنَةٌ وَمِنَ النَّاسِ مَن يُجَدِلُ فِي اللَّهِ بِغَيْرِ عِلْمٍ وَلَا هُدًى
وَلَا كِتَبٍ مُّنِيرٍ لقمان: ۲۰
"And has completed and perfected His Graces upon you, (both) apparent (i.e. Islamic Monotheism, and the lawful pleasures of this world, including health, good looks, etc.) and hidden [i.e. One's Faith in Allah (of Islamic Monotheism) knowledge, wisdom, guidance for doing righteous deeds, and also the pleasures and delights of the Hereafter in Paradise, etc.]?" [Qur'an 31: 20]

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My Sincere Advice to Women: Umm 'Abdillah al-Wadi'yyah
My Sincere Advice to Women: Umm 'Abdillah al-Wadiyyah
CONTENTS
Chapter Seventeen:
A Woman Should Not Describe another Woman to Her Husband
245
Preface:
8
Foreword by Shaykh Muqbil Bin Hādī al-Wadi'T: ......... 9 Author's Introduction: .........
Chapter Eighteen:
Forbiddance of Changing Allah's Creation
246
...13
Chapter One:
Chapter Two: Chapter Three: Diseases of the Tongue. Chapter Four:
Children Upbringing.....
Exhortation Towards Sincerity And Guarding Ones Time ............ 15 Guarding the Tongue and Its Merit... 33
Chapter Nineteen:
Making Attachments to Hair is among the Major Sins
248
Chapter Twenty:
Prohibition of Men Copying Women and Vice-Versa
254
42
105
Chapter Twenty-One: Clapping is for Women Chapter Twenty-Two: There is No Obligation of Jihad Upon Women
257
259
Chapter Five:
A Woman May Go Out To Fulfill Her Needs........
Chapter Six:
Chapter Seven:
Chapter Eight:
Chapter Nine:
.....178
Chapter Ten:
Women Have Short Coming In Religion and Reasoning.
.193
Chapter Eleven: Part of Women's Plot...... Chapter Twelve: Majority of the People of Hell Are
.195
Women Chapter Thirteen: The Husband's Rights upon His Wife and the Wife's Rights upon Her Husband. 201
197
.......... 137
Hijab and Lowering the Gaze......... 155 Etiquette of a Woman Going Out ......172 A Woman Attending Battle And
Defending Herself If Need Be........ 174 Beware Of Women
Chapter Twenty-Three: Al-Haya [Bashfulness] and Its Excellence 261
327
Chapter Twenty-Six: Spreading the Greeting of Salam...... 314 Chapter Twenty-Seven: Multiple Number of Women in the End of This Ummah Chapter Twenty-Eight: Excellence of Khadijah Bint Khuwaylid [The First Wife of the Prophet] ..... 328 Chapter Twenty-Nine: Quest for Marrying Pious Woman, and the Opposite.....
Chapter Twenty-Four: Evil Traits
277
Chapter Twenty-Five: Joining Ties with Non-Muslim Relations 309
333
Chapter Fourteen: Women's Jealousy.
.231
Chapter Fifteen:
A Woman Should Not Ask for Her Sister's Divorce
Chapter Thirty: Chapter Thirty-One:
Learning Beneficial Knowledge...343 Adherence to the Qur'an and Sunnah 362
242
Questions and Answers
379
Chapter Sixteen:
A Woman Should Not Show Satisfaction with what She Is Not Given 244