Enjoy Your Life : Colour : Darussalam by Dr. Muhammad Al-Areefi

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THE ART OF INTERACTION WITH PEOPLE
ENJOY
YOUR LIFE
Deduced From
a Study of The Prophet's Life
Dr. Muhammad Al-'Areefi
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Steadiness on principles
458
437
454
463
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Temptations
463
70 Forgiving others
467
71
Generosity
477
72
Restraining oneself from harming others
486
467
477
486
73
Do not gain enemies
491
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The tongue is king
493
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Control your tongue
501
76
The key
506
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The emotional bank balance
The magician
Help by your speech if you cannot do so....
Supplications
Look with both eyes
The art of listening
The art of discussion
Block the escape routes of the detractors
Wait and do not interrupt!
Charity before consultation
It is not important to always be successful
Be brave and start from now!
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With slaves and servants
With adversaries
With animals
Purify your intention for the sake of Allah
Use the right flavour
Choose the right topics
Be kind at the first meeting
People are like the minerals of the earth
Mu'awiyah's hair
Taking one's psychological condition...
Show them that you want the best...
Be concerned about others
Remember names
Be observant and complimentary
Only pass comment on what is good
Do not interfere in matters that...
How to deal with a meddlesome person
Do not criticise!
Do not be dictatorial
Hold the stick from the middle
Make it easy to rectify a fault
The other opinion
Respond to mistreatment with kindness
Convince him of his error so he may....
Do not criticise me! End of story?
Verify the fault before criticisin
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Topic - 2
WHAT ARE WE GOING TO LEARN?
WHAT ARE WE GOING TO LEARN?
People generally tend to share their moments of happiness and sorrow. They are happy when they become wealthy. They will be joyous when promoted at work, content when they recover from illness, and cheerful when the world smiles at them and fulfils their dreams.
Likewise, they all grieve over illness, disgrace and loss of wealth. Knowing this to be the case, let us look for ways in which to make our joy everlasting and hence overpower our sorrows. Yes, in reality life tends to be both sweet and bitter, and on this we would not disagree, but why do we often focus on our calamities and sorrows, and as a result become depressed for days on end? Where an hour is enough to grieve over something, hours on end are spent grieving. Why?
I realise that sorrow and anguish enter our hearts without seeking permission, but for each door of sadness that opens there are a thousand means of shutting it, and these are what we will expound here.
Allow me to bring your attention to another matter. How often
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